Masturbation for women Such stimulation often leads to orgasm, but not invariably, as many women enjoy stroking themselves and experiencing pleasure that does not necessarily culminate in a climax.
ADVERTISEMENT CONTINUE READING BELOW Most men have masturbated, often beginning at a fairly young age. Women tend to start masturbation later however, and it doesn't tend to be such an automatic activity as it is for most men and boys. Furthermore, even once a woman has learned to masturbate, she will probably do it less than the average man and it seems that far fewer burberry discount outlet women than men do it regularly. Various people have speculated on why this is the case. But most agree that it is to do with basic sex drive. Another reason for masturbation being less important to women than men is that a man's sexual apparatus is all outside his body and he's focused on the pleasure his penis provides him from a very young age. Women's sex organs are less obvious. For example, the clitoris which is the main organ of pleasure in most women is hidden away under the labia. Also, though this is less the case now than it used to be, girls have traditionally been brought up to be more modest and secretive about their bodies. Is masturbation a good thing?Most clinicians and counsellors working in the world of sex and/or relationship therapy believe that a woman can learn a great deal about her own sexual response through masturbation, and that she can then pass on what she knows to any partner male or female she may have. So, masturbation should not be regarded, as it once was, as immature or shameful. It's something that most normally sexed women do. They may reserve it for when they feel in need of a treat, or they may do it very regularly even when they're in a relationship. Some women choose to masturbate in order to ease abdominal cramps during their periods. Many have also discovered that it helps to send you off to sleep if you're a bit wakeful. Others do burberry outlet online it for sexual relief privately and loads of women these days do it as part of the foreplay they share with their partners. ADVERTISEMENT CONTINUE READING BELOW What's the best way for women to have an orgasm?If you don't know exactly what it is you like or what it takes for you to reach orgasm, it's a good idea to practise on your own. For some people the very idea of stimulating themselves can seem worrying, or unappealing, or something to be ashamed of. It's a good idea if women can rid themselves of these feelings. Masturbation is a burberry factory outlet great way to lessen tension in your body. It's a very safe way to have an orgasm. And it's probably the best way to learn about how your body likes to be loved. But masturbation, like most things, takes practice. For a start, you need to ensure that you're going to have adequate time to yourself and that you won't be interrupted. Begin by taking a shower, or a long, luxurious, scented bath. Make sure that it is warm and comfortable. Put on some relaxing music if you like. That way, you'll be able to feel whether you're tightening and relaxing the muscles or not. Try touching yourself all over your body, including the breasts and your genitals where you will quickly find the most sensitive spots. In particular, experiment near the opening of the vagina and clitoris and stimulate yourself in whatever way feels best. Ignore everything around you. Interestingly, men and women differ somewhat in what they find arousing. Most men like graphic pictures of sexy women or of people having sex. If you have never previously masturbated to orgasm, you might burberry outlet london prices suddenly feel tired and want to stop. Or you may be nervous about the build up of excitement in your body. Don't worry about this. Just take your time. And if you don't want to go on right now, then that's fine. You can always try again another day. Eventually, the pleasant feelings will build up and you'll be comfortable with this and increasingly excited and you won't want to stop.
A vibrator may be useful (small vibrators such as bullets will be best for first timers), or you could try stimulating yourself with the hand spray when you are in the shower. Use your fingers at the same time. Most women can learn to masturbate and to orgasm and the guidelines above should help you to achieve this.
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